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Dude she’s just not into you



She’s that girl of your dreams; smart, sexy, beautiful, fun and spontaneous. You’ve been best buddies for a long time, and know the in’s and out’s of all her relationships. You later start developing feelings for her but she sees you as just a friend- nothing less, nothing more. How many of you majita have experienced that; uncanywe lomntana but she’s simply not into you?

                                                     Photo:  Annie Wu @flickr


Chances are, she’ll never date you even if you were the last man on earth. Like Chopsticks (Choppa) chasing after Zodwa (who’s into Mr Nick) on Generations, you’re fighting a losing battle. So what do you do in a situation like that? Communication is key; tell her how you really feel about her. it might come as a shock to her so be careful of pushing it too far and give her some time, ubesineke ndonda if you’re think it is worth it. You’ll never know, maybe someday she’ll release that you’re her man. I know of a lot of cases where this never works, and the lady doesn’t like the guy that way. In that case its best you cut you loses and accept that akakuncanwa! 


By Bulelwa Pango

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